Thursday 1 November 2012

Meeting my Donor

It finally happened. This week I met the donor of the cells that saved my life. Katie is a wonderful young woman from Michigan. After chatting with her on line, I feel like I've known her all my life. It has been an emotional re-union. I will let Katie tell her story in her own words, shared with her permission. 
 

Katie and Max
"So to tell you a little about myself.  I’m from Traverse City, MI. I live in Kingsley a very small farming town outside Traverse.  I’m 30 yrs. old.  I’m engaged as of February of this year to a wonderful man, Max.  I have  two wonderful hound dogs Dozer (basset hound) and Chevy (coonhound).  We actually just was given the best gift of all this late February in finding out were having our first baby.  He is due November 23rd the day after our Thanksgiving here in the US.  "




Chevy
  " I signed up to do bone marrow way back in high school when I found out that I have pretty rare blood type, O-.  I saved a few babies' lives at our local hospital here in Traverse City (Munson Medical Center) by doing blood transfusions for them.  I didn’t mind doing that knowing a life could be saved by just donating.  Little did I know 12 yrs later I would be called by Michigan Blood to be asked to donate bone marrow. "


Katie, you were the one person in 17 million registered donors, in the whole world,  to match my cell type. I know you had to travel not once, but twice to Grand Rapids Michigan - the one time for testing, and the other for donating, driving five hours round trip each time. And you chose the more painful and involved procedure of bone marrow harvesting because you were planning a family. Dr Power, my oncologist, said "I'm glad she did, 'cause it sure worked better in your case!"


  Katie's bone marrow cells in Michigan




The cooler packed for flight to Vancouver Canada

  " I have to tell you my mother was with me for all of this journey. When they actually took all my marrow and put it into the little cooler to be sent to you. My mother said a prayer over it for safe travel and good wishes for your recovery.  She said the whole waiting room got silent and said the prayer with her.  She said people asked her what it was for, and all she could say was it was for a very special sick person.  You wouldn’t believe the support we got from family and friends thru this whole journey.  I can’t begin to thank you enough for making me a better person.  It’s really an eye opener to know I have helped another human out there I don’t even know.  I’m so happy you’re doing well and getting back to a normal life. I hope to hear more good news for you and your family.  I’m just so happy you have plenty of more years ahead to share with all your loved ones.

Katie, my family and I have been moved to tears by your generosity and your words.  My brother Andy said you are "truly a blood relative now". Thank you and may God bless you and your family.

                               



10 comments:

  1. What an amazing gift--Katie is truly a special person, so unselfish! So......does that mean you should be half American, Steve?

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  2. Gail: You are right! I should have cast half a vote in the recent U.S. election! Steve

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  3. Moved to tears once again by your amazing journey Dr. Steve. Thank you Katie for saving our Dr. God Bless

    Lynn G - patient

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  4. Thnx for sharing, very inspiring, beyond words. It moves me to want to do more. I spoke to you in the hospital. You are a giver.My son is working as a Dr. now. Maybe, he will match with someone in need. He has been tested to be a donor. I cannot donate my blood, or marrow because I had a little melanoma.

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  5. Steve,

    Hi it's Katie. Just wanted to give you an update. We had our little blessing on November 19th. He couldn't be more perfect!

    My family and extend family think your blog is such a wonderful thing you have done. I do believe that you helped yourself and family cope with what you went thru by documenting everything. I believe in paying it forward and staying positive it the real cure to most all things.

    I hope your doing well and your family:) I'll keep in touch as much as I can. Talk to you soon.

    Katie K.

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  6. Kelly D. (patient of Dr. Steve)7 December 2012 at 13:48

    Wow- this is so incredible. THank you Dr. Steve for posting this! My Dad didn't get to meet his stem cell donor (a woman from Germany), and as much as we teased him about his new feminine side, we were truly astounded by the generosity of this stranger- as you are with Katie. I hope my saliva swab will help someone out one day too. PS- Congrats to Katie on her new baby boy!

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  7. Hi Steve,
    I'm sitting here with Sam and we've been reading your posts together. We are blown away by Katie's generosity and courage and so happy to hear she had her baby.
    You look better in every photo and I'm glad you'll be back to work soon. I can't even imagine how much your patients have missed you.
    Wishing you, Caroline, Jason and Zoe a very Happy New Year,
    Jackie

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  8. Hi Steve,
    Happy New Year! It's wonderful news that you're disease-free. What an incredible fightback you made.
    And what wonderful generosity and dedication from Katie - inspirational!
    Alex, Jeta, Eliza, Hana

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  9. this is such a wonder ful story of human awareness, kindness and generosity - certainly evoked tears of the shared joy of life and living for others....

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  10. I was moved to tears and felt very emotional reading about your bone marrow donor. I'm so so glad the procedure worked for you and that you are able to live a healthy long life. I worked with Valerie Tregillus and met you once when you came to Victoria Ministry of Health for a meeting. Mai-Lin Brach

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